Ask About The Enablers

My guess is if after baby # 2, her parents and friends had said to her "if you have any more and you are not married, we aren't going to help you any more...Don't ask us to babysit, don't ask us for help at all", she wouldn't of had any more. Yep, if she had gotten a big dose of tough love once # 3 was conceived, she would have realized what it is like to raise kids on your own. But instead, Mom, Dad and all her friends came to the rescue of the spoiled brat and now look what happen. I feel bad for the 14 kids!